Let's skip the awkward whispering - period sex is good sex. The whole "wait until it's over" thing? It's a stupid rule, and we're calling time. Here's the truth: your body is already doing incredible things, and your pleasure? Very much still on the table. Period sex can be more intense, more connected, and come with a lot of benefits.
We say yes to period sex
Orgasms can reduce cramps: That post-orgasm muscle relaxation? It's not in your head - orgasms release endorphins that can help calm period pain.
- You're often more sensitive: Thanks to extra blood flow in your pelvic region, everything's more intense, in the best way.
- Your hormones are working with you: With your main hormones at their lowest, your head can feel a little clearer, your mood more even.
- It's bonding: It's raw, real, and can break down a lot of unnecessary shame.
Make it sexy, not stressful
- Play with positions: Choose angles that keep things comfortable and reduce mess, like spooning or lying on your back with hips slightly elevated.
- Set the scene: Dark sheets, dim lighting, and a towel (or better yet, a waterproof blanket) can free your mind.
- Communicate: Talk openly about boundaries before you start.
Period sex essentials
- Scarlet Period Cup: A game-changer for oral care during your period. Wear it to catch blood during external play or oral. Please always remove for penetrative sex.
- rae Heat Pad: If cramps decide to crash the post-sex party, rae has your back (or your belly). Wireless, sleek, and discreet.
- Scarlet Daily Cleanser: A gentle, pH-friendly wash for a quick, fresh clean-up afterwards.
- Waterproof Toys: For those who like to mix things up, waterproof means you can take it to the shower or keep it mess-free in bed. We love the LBDO's Essensual Vibe.
- Splash Blanket: This Splash Blanket is still cute but also washable and waterproof, so stress less about the sheets.
Your period doesn't have to be a no-fly zone. With the right mindset (and the right gear), period sex can be more pleasurable, more connected, and dare we say hotter than regular sex.
